The Charmer....

Yup writing after a gap of nearly two months...and on the day when my Arsh has turned five months old.He seems to be getting his senses ..and recognizes and explores all things around.


Wonder how all children follow almost the same pattern of growing up and then become different kinda of individual curtesy the upbringing and the circumstances.

By the end of third month,Arsh had started all his infant talks to his fullest making his Ma-Pa,and others rejoicing the moments.His talks were full of gaya,agu,abu,aaye,gu,grrrr,brrrr,anga.He started tearing papers,and the first time he responded to a book was when i was reading a book and he was watching me.So i showed and he started doing grrr seeing the black letters as if he understands everything.This was the first and last time when he saw a book with patience.Now he loves books , difference being he instantly grabs and tries his best to chop the papers into tiny bits.....the trademark Arsh's style.

And in the third month itself he had started trying to turn.....but used to fail most of the time.It was clearly at the onset of fourth month that Arsh succeeded in his attempts to turn here and there.It started ,as once i was changing his diaper and just turned back to pick something and saw Arsh at some distance .........he had turned and was smiling.And this attempt followed with desperation to turn at eye's wink whenever we lie him down.He started turning but used to cry when didn't know how to come back.But guess this is struggle to realize things.Children keep on trying and trying and succeed one day, followed with newer tasks to be explored and to be learned.
Fourth month was full of Arsh's infant talks to more degree and his newer interest to pull hair not his but others ,chain etc etc.Children grab whatsoever comes in their hand...since they don't trust anybody and hence feel that they can best take care of themselves.So he grabs hair for his protection and makes us scream to say "Arsh don't do this beta,NO..No"and he will keep on smiling and concentrating on whatsoever he is upto,being so oblivious to the happenings.The biggest victim of his hair pulling scenario is his PAPA...curtesy his beard.So both father and son can be seen in a wrestling session when Arsh grabs hair and kamal tries to save himself.

And now Arsh when has become five months old.....his infant talks have improved.Now he kind of talks long and smiles and laughs loud.Has started crawling without lifting his butts.I guess crawling with that frog posture needs energy and Arsh is small for that.So he crawls using his back and does all Ramdev Asan's as his Grandpa says.So flexible that he can put his feet's toe in his mouth and he enjoys his toe a lot.......as if some jam is tucked on it.
But most amazing thing.. is that i when i tell him my woes, and act to be sad or strict..his facial expressions are just amazing.He behaves as if he understands everything and is a responsible individual.
Yes not to forget ......everything is not soo good,good.He will not let me sleep if i'm very tired,and will sleep only when its time for me to get up.Will cry at his own wish without caring ...what i'm upto...and yes will get uneasy mostly when i'm watching my favourite serial...Oof.
But i think this uneasiness are just miniscule to the happiness he gives.Makes us happy and smiling with his contagious and the cutest smile.He is an absolute darling who sleeps by 10.00 in night so i can surf net and read.And the tiny,tiny things that makes me feel that motherhood is the best thing to happen.