Never ever plan just follow the flow

Started up with a new phase in my life.Never had planned that I will become a lecturer.It was just soo boring and never in my context.But now,I think with my present ifs and wants, it is the best job suiting my life and priorities.Teaching students who are might be couple of years younger to you is a different ball game altogether.Their way of handling things,thinking brings lot of freshness to all the perspective.

And its too good that suddenly my schedule has started working and now i don't waste time in sleeping again and again in the morning and the lazy afternoons...its better to put my mind to something productive.Surely, it will also check my waistline which was getting hitched inspite of yoga due to my regular drooling in the fridge and Arsh's plate.Feeling excited that now i don't need to see my hubby's credit card everytime before entering a mall.Though i will make certain that I grace his cards with my shopping but now i have an excuse"Will you buy it for me or should i take it on my own."

One more advantage I'm seeing is from Arsh's perspective,due to my quality time spending with him. Earlier i had lot of quantity time, but now, when I'm with my baby .......I'm only with him.so no TV,newspaper or book..its only Arsh and his talks and plays.And so i also see he doesn't take me soo granted which i had started experiencing earlier.This connect goes to my Mom also.I realized her worth more after my marriage.
I take it that distance for some time or may be age is accumulating this affect.Good for both of us.

Apart from all the positives, their is also a big list which i 'm really not liking.Making endless presentations, assignments, checking examination papers (its a task,really.And i really remember all my teachers,professors for actually tolerating this pain) and sitting in boring guest lectures etc etc. ...the list is endless.

Positives are outweighing the negatives,so I'm loving it.